Trauma counselling

Childhood Trauma Counselling in Essex

Difficult experiences in childhood can shape how we feel, trust and relate long into adulthood. Counselling offers a safe space to make sense of them.

Understanding

How does childhood trauma affect adults?

Childhood trauma, including neglect, abuse, loss or growing up in a frightening or unpredictable home, can affect our confidence, emotions and relationships as adults. Many people only link their struggles to childhood much later.

Counselling helps you understand those links and develop new ways of coping, without needing to relive everything at once.

You may recognise

  • Difficulty trusting or feeling safe
  • Choosing unhealthy relationships
  • Low self-worth or harsh self-criticism
  • Anxiety, anger or emotional numbness
  • People-pleasing or perfectionism
  • Feeling stuck in old patterns

How I help

A gentle, tailored approach

Understanding your story

Seeing how early experiences shaped you.

Building safety first

Developing steadiness before approaching anything painful.

Changing patterns

Choosing different responses in relationships and life.

Questions

Frequently asked questions

Why do I keep choosing unhealthy relationships?

Early experiences often shape what feels familiar. Understanding this can help you choose differently.

Do I have to talk about my childhood in detail?

No. You decide what you share and when.

About Clare Kiernan

Why Essex Therapy

I bring over 25 years of counselling experience, a compassionate, collaborative and evidence-informed approach, and a commitment to working at your pace. I am a BACP accredited counsellor and qualified clinical supervisor.

Read more about me

Part of: Trauma counselling

Related topics:

You don't have to do this alone

Take the first step when you're ready

Get in touch to talk about how I can support you. There is no pressure and no obligation.